Showing posts with label Reminders In Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reminders In Life. Show all posts

Thursday, February 9, 2012

The Story of a Home-Made Ice Cube for a Milo

Assalamualaikum and good morning.

There was a night, which I craved for a good iced Milo to quench my thirst to stay up all night long, waiting for the football match of Liverpool, I guess. So, I looked up in the refrigerator and there was no ice cubes left, so I took a special container in the refrigerator to make an ice cube. I can't make it as ice cubes because there are no partitions in the container to make small and numerous ice cubes. I can only make a huge one and smash it up to small pieces when I want to use it in my drink. So I poured some water in the container and let it became an ice cube in the refrigerator's uppermost compartment. I had already drinking cold drinks at the evening, but I still want the Milo.

Few hours later, I thought the ice cube was ready, so I boiled some water. I took a big mug, put some sweetened condensed milk (susu pekat manis in Malay language) and few spoons of Milo in it. After awhile, I put the new-boiled hot water into the mug and I stir it. Hmmm...The Milo sure tastes good as I take a sip of it. >.<

I was so desperate to drink the iced Milo, so I took the ice cube that I have made, and I look at it with a full of hope that this is the last step of making the iced Milo, and after this I can drink it until the last drop! I took a mortar and smacked the ice cube and it was only then I realised that, only the outer part of it has been frozen, but not inside. The inside of the ice cube remains a cold water, and unfortunately I can use a small amount of ice in my Milo... :(

THERE ARE CERTAIN THINGS THAT NEED TIME
I thought that few hours of waiting would make the water to freeze and become ice cube, but I was wrong. It took more time than I expected. The same thing goes for our life. We may expect with an effort in such a short while, we can achieve what we have dreamed before. Some things need time. Fruits need time to become ripe, body fats need time and consistency in exercise so that they can be burned out of our body. When we fall asleep, we do need a lot of time before we can wake up in a refreshing moment. People also need some time to mend their broken heart, so that they can realise all the events happened in our life are based on the God's will. We do need time to change ourselves to become more mature everyday in order to face the coming days in our life. Every effort in life must be consistent so that we can achieve a good result, and it may take some time but you must keep it going on and on.

NO MATTER HOW GOOD OUR PLAN IS, 'HE' KNOWS THE BEST FOR US
No matter how delicious my Milo became at the first place, the ice cube sure disappoints me a lot because it was not fully frozen yet. So I can only use it a little bit. I choose a big mug to satisfy myself, put a good portion of sweet condensed milk and Milo, but I failed to make it cold due to the incomplete ice cube.
Yeah, we may put a good effort, but in the end, it is He who determined whether the effort is worth enough to get a good ending or not. If you may have a bad result of your effort, you can always try again and if you succeed, don't get too cocky. Don't ever think that when you achieve success, God loves you. And don't ever think that when you have failed, God hates you. It can be that the success is a test given to you, to identify your attitude, whether you will go overboard or not. If it is a failure, it is a test given to you, to identify your determination, whether you keep on trying and change yourself or not. :)

INSIDE WE ARE DIFFERENT RATHER THAN THE OUTSIDE
As I smacked the ice cube, I can't see whether the inner part has become frozen completely or not. Some people may look nice on the outside but not in the inside, and vice versa. We always judge people on the outside and make a full comprehensive analysis out of them. I don't say that we can't judge by the outside at all, the physical appearance can be seen, and it can actually reflect his or her attitude. Maybe for the first sight, it is okay to make an overall assumption about the person, but you have to make a progression by become closer to that person. If you don't do that, throw away the assumption and if you heard from your friends about bad things that the person had done, you can't judge him/her recklessly. You can't judge people from other people's judgement. So, not all people who are good looking on the outside (handsome, beautiful, religious-looking, smart) are good in the inside. And not all the people who are not good looking on the outside (ugly, dark complexion, chubby, looks messy, don't look so religious) are not good in the inside. Who knows there are certain things deep inside them that we have not discovered yet~


Now, those are my views about what happened between me and the ice cube. Alhamdulillah it reminds me a lot about life. Wise man says, "Even if there is a mosquito bites you, if you are alert and conscious, you can notice about the lesson that God wants to provide."
May the simple story bring meaningful lessons to me and you guys. Insya-Allah... ^_^

Monday, February 21, 2011

Saying Sorry

Assalamualaikum and good evening~

"Saying sorry?
Huh !!! I don't want to ask for his/her forgiveness!!!"



Some of us might say that. Out loud, or in our heart. Maybe the song is true all along. 'Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word' by Blue and Sir Elton John. We are hardly saying sorry to the others when we are hurting them, no matter physically or mentally. Maybe there are several reasons for us, why we are hardly saying sorry to the others all this time.

First of all, it is mainly because of our ego. Yes, our pride!
We cannot tolerate with the others. We cannot lower the ego by remembering the things that the people had done to us. Or perhaps, it is our mistake, but we didn't want to admit it, simply because we are ashame of the mistake.

Next, because we keep thinking about what people had done to us and NOT REMEMBERING WHAT WE DID TO THAT PARTICULAR PEOPLE. We keep talking about the pain we feel inside but still we are not thinking of the people, because it's simply we didn't in their shoes. We are being selfish.

The last one, we had difficult times to say sorry or we hardly find some space, time and suitable condition to say sorry. There are lots of ways to convey your apology. Basically people tend to face them directly. But if you still got problems with that, in this modern age, we can give them a call, message, e-mail or whatever things that can be used as long as the message would be received. But, letters should be a useful one as it really have high sentimental value to the people, whom you want to seek for an apology.



If anyone ask for your forgiveness, then you must forgive them.
Clear up your heart, mind and soul.
I believe you that you will hate the feeling of hating people in such a long time and it's killing you deep inside, seriously.

Apologize to people and forgive people for their mistakes. These two things are closely related. You don't want to wait until the person had died to forgive him don't you?
You don't want to die and regret all those stupid mistakes that you've done while all those wrongdoings can be mended by the word 'sorry' ?

Remember...
HabluminAllah (relationship with Allah)
and
Habluminannas (relationship with humans)



Do think about it...
=)

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Look Into Those Eyes...='(

Assalamualaikum and good evening

This is a story of a person that I know...Sorry I'm not gonna mention his name, and his relationship with me...


Look into your son's eyes...look into those cute eyes...He is your flesh and blood for God's sake
Doesn't he deserve a brighter future? Your son is playing with his toys, dancing around with his lovely movement when watching television. He is now already can call you "Abah!!!" when you come home, tired from all those work, just for the family, for all of you to survive.

He is getting older. YOUR SON. From a baby that you cuddle, whom you Azan in his right ear when he arrived to this world. It is you who bring him to this world, with the help of Allah S.W.T.
He's the one who would recognize you as his father...Please provide him with a better future...



Your son who you rock his cradle all night long when he is sick. The one that you always hug, kiss him to show your love towards him...The milk that that you provide with all you love, are sometimes out of stock while you are using the money to something else...you used to make the milk by mixing the milk powder,put in the bottle, and feed your son, and deep you inside you hope he will be a better person than you...

LOOK AT YOUR SON!!!
He used to lie down and move his adorable and cute fingers....then he tried to crawl over you whenever you are present near him. He try to stand up slowly and walking step by step towards you and here now, he's dancing gracefully with smile and laughter...

He's your son...='(

What did you do all this years?


You take drugs !!!

You don't give him with bright future that he longs for....
What kind of a father are you?????
Do you think when he's growing older, he can accept the person that he loves is a drug addict???
Can you give the money to support his life while your money is wasted on those filthy drugs???

Think again !!!
YOU ARE A FATHER


Sit down, relax and took a deep look in your son's eyes
think again
please...
Stop IT..for HIM



Thursday, January 27, 2011

People that we call as....FRIENDS

Assalamualakum and good night~


Yeah...referring to the title of the post, I'm gonna write something about friends. Why friends? We, as the human being possess the feelings to get accompanied by the others, or else we will feel lonely, useless, and no one will understand us better rather than friends. Yes, we do have God, for Him we shall craving and pray for all our hardships in life and family to help and support us. But still we do need friends. Peers who are willing to lend their ears for all our problems, shoulders for us to cry on.

I don't know whether this is applicable for all people or not. But the Malay adults always say :

"Do choose your friends wisely. If they are bad, you are gonna turn bad too...If you choose a kind person, than you can be kind as well"

Yes, it is true indeed...But then, have you ever think that if bad people are making friends among themselves and good people are making friends among themselves, the bad people will eventually turn out to be more worse than before and the good people will become better by themselves without thinking about the bad people.

See? Even animals do need friends..=)

Alhamdulillah (praise to God), although I am bad, still some of those who have strong religion hold, who have more ethic than me still accepting me as my friend. I don't mind if I have bad friends in my life. Eventually we will learn about each other. We will share knowledge, experience, stories, bad incidents that have occurred in our life. I am not positioning myself as a bad guy or a good guy. It's your choice to think whether I am good or not.

Friends, we do need them. They are the one who colour our life with laughters, tears, and support. Some friends may hurt our feelings, but hey; they are teaching us about LIFE~
they are the one that have been close to us after our family. Do love your friends, by appreciating them. Spend some time for them, spend some money to give presents for them and contribute your might if they need some help.

I am appreciating my friends no matter who they are. Once you are my friend, you are gonna be my friends forever~
No matter where I am, where I go, what I do, I still remember all of you...=)
Thanks for being my friends....