Saying Sorry

Assalamualaikum and good evening~

"Saying sorry?
Huh !!! I don't want to ask for his/her forgiveness!!!"

Some of us might say that. Out loud, or in our heart. Maybe the song is true all along. 'Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word' by Blue and Sir Elton John. We are hardly saying sorry to the others when we are hurting them, no matter physically or mentally. Maybe there are several reasons for us, why we are hardly saying sorry to the others all this time.

First of all, it is mainly because of our ego. Yes, our pride!
We cannot tolerate with the others. We cannot lower the ego by remembering the things that the people had done to us. Or perhaps, it is our mistake, but we didn't want to admit it, simply because we are ashame of the mistake.

Next, because we keep thinking about what people had done to us and NOT REMEMBERING WHAT WE DID TO THAT PARTICULAR PEOPLE. We keep talking about the pain we feel inside but still we are not thinking of the people, because it's simply we didn't in their shoes. We are being selfish.

The last one, we had difficult times to say sorry or we hardly find some space, time and suitable condition to say sorry. There are lots of ways to convey your apology. Basically people tend to face them directly. But if you still got problems with that, in this modern age, we can give them a call, message, e-mail or whatever things that can be used as long as the message would be received. But, letters should be a useful one as it really have high sentimental value to the people, whom you want to seek for an apology.

If anyone ask for your forgiveness, then you must forgive them.
Clear up your heart, mind and soul.
I believe you that you will hate the feeling of hating people in such a long time and it's killing you deep inside, seriously.

Apologize to people and forgive people for their mistakes. These two things are closely related. You don't want to wait until the person had died to forgive him don't you?
You don't want to die and regret all those stupid mistakes that you've done while all those wrongdoings can be mended by the word 'sorry' ?

Remember...
HabluminAllah (relationship with Allah)
and
Habluminannas (relationship with humans)